Women aren’t always known for being the most straightforward when it comes to dishing on what they think is hot in a man.
Most men have been nagged by girlfriends about some characteristic or another;
but wouldn’t it be great to find out some of those behaviors are actually what keep your woman interested?
Sometimes a woman can seem outwardly annoyed by a man’s behavior
but actually find it attractive.
Confused?
Take for example; our parents.
How in the blue hell do they keep their attraction ignite after donkey years ?
The followings are probably my top few "research" i've done so far
1) Jealousy
Such a powerful tool.
Although unchecked jealousy can easily get out of hand,
a touch here or there can really fan the flames of attraction.
If she thought you really didn’t care about the cute BOY NEXT DOOR who hit on her,
she’d think you didn’t care about her at all.
When you probe into her relationship with her personal trainer,
she may chide you for your overactive imagination,
but it’s certain that she’s smiling on the inside (Standard..macam tak tau gitu).
A little jealousy will go a long, long way, so use it very sparingly.
Be aware of its power and allure *winks*
2) Masculinity
Although it may seem like a woman wants a man who dresses up,
sometimes a soccer-playing, jersey-wearing guy can be more appealing than you‘d think.
Key word : SOMETIMES
Now and again,
she enjoys seeing you in your element getting to rescue her (i always wanted to don that firemen suit..hey..it's a fiery fantasy) or fix her stuff.
It is true that when you go out to a nice dinner,
she’d like you to dress well and act better,
but what she doesn’t admit is that,
for the MOST part,
she appreciates your masculinity,
no matter how unfinished it may be.
=)
3) She actually likes you for you.
No matter how fugly you may be
or having a face only a mother could love..haha
it doesn't really matter (actually it does ah..but to a certain extent..haha..ni nak kasi korang chance).
What matters most is you're willing to exude out from what's within
and she loves you for who you are..hahahaha...macam ye ye
As the saying goes (padahal ni saying..aku da ckp banyak kali sak),
the physical things does not define within.
Being bald and pimply is a tough job.
But i am as sweet as this finished creme brulee.
haha
ps : my mama said it's good to tell truth especially during the fasting month..haha
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Sacrifices and its sorrows
The idea of living life to the fullest is a mantra for the ages.
Despite this, it’s too easy to live by the status quo
and try to fix your mistakes as you go through life.
What is regrettable varies from person to person
and some things that cause regret are beyond control.
But if you find yourself trying to patch up your life,
chances are you’ll find yourself regretting more and more of the things you didn’t do.
Sometimes placing others before yourself might not be necessarily be a good idea.
Sacrificing 2 years of joy and probably a life time of "bowls of rice" for accomadating hours of ease to my parents.
A riduculous decision ?
I'm not sure but i hope God has a perfect rationale.
Crying and regretting is futile as the inevitable had happened.
Goodbye tekong ! Goodbye green ! Goodbye OCS ! Goodbye military opportunity !
You guys have been such blissful dreams but only to leave me abrased.
So long.
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I may continue to exceed onlookers expections
but will always fall short to yours.
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